ATTRACTION

ATTRACTION - HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT IT?

When you first meet someone, there is almost no feeling better than that euphoric feeling of love.  Well, let's scratch love right now and say attraction.  Both can make you feel the same thing but with attraction, when the intensity fades, sometimes so does the attraction.  Luckily, right now we are only going to talk about the attraction before it fades.

Personally, I love the rush I get when the man I am attracted to walks in the room.  I don't even have to be looking in his direction but I can still feel him.  It's as if the entire room becomes brighter and I experience this delicious tension which causes my breathing to pause momentarily.  And then his eyes meet mine and he smiles.  Yes, that about does it folks.  I can think about that moment throughout the day and it will automatically lift my spirits.

Now there are many things that can attract you to someone.  I haven't used the terminology 'a body like Adonis' in a while and to say it would mean that I've just witnessed some incredible eye candy. While this could start an attraction; it's quite possible that it could be only a superficial attraction.  This is because you want to get to know someone.  You want to know what their thoughts are on a wide range of subjects.  Heck, you want to know what their thoughts are of you. 

Somehow even just writing about an attraction to someone makes me want to burst out in song.  Just any happy crazy song and maybe a few songs all combined together.  Kind of like a Jumping Jack Flash moment.  An intense attraction can seem to throw your whole world off-kilter but it feels marvelous at that time.

Now everyone knows the male is the ALPHA, right?  He is the aggressor and the female plays the submissive role.  I believe some of the most important factors in attraction are taking your time, communicating and getting to know one another.  However, there are times when all of those things go out the window.  There are times when there is no denying something is right and you just go with it.  Afterall, if you don't take the chance, how will you ever know?

Your comments are welcome.  CAM2013